Discover Your North Star

Discover Your North Star

"Discover Your North Star" is a metaphor for discovering one's purpose or direction in life. The North Star, also known as Polaris, is a fixed point in the night sky that travellers have used for centuries to navigate their way. In this context, your "North Star" represents your mission statement or true calling to purposeful living.

To find and follow your North Star, there are some key points to keep in mind:

1. Purpose: Finding your North Star means living with purpose and intention. It provides a reference point to keep you moving in the right direction. Once you know your purpose, you will have a sense of direction and meaning, helping you weather the storms that come your way.

2. Unique Gifts: Your North Star is often closely related to your unique gifts and talents. These are gifts you don't usually use in your daily life or even skills nobody knows about besides you. You are more likely to find your North Star by identifying and developing your unique gifts.

3. Passions: Your North Star closely relates to your passions and interests. What gets you excited and motivated? What makes you feel alive and energized? You will likely find your North Star by identifying your passions and interests.

4. Evolution: Your North Star may change over time as you evolve and grow. This is a natural part of the process. You may experience something that pushes you in a different direction, or you may reach your goal, which means it's time to raise the level of your next goal. Embrace the evolution of your North Star and allow it to guide you on your journey.

5. Authenticity: Your North Star is most effective when aligned with your true self. By charting your path using your life's unchangeable "true north" markers, you can recognize your life's purpose, stay on course, and reach your fullest potential for happiness.

Remember, your North Star is to help you make informed decisions for your future. Be content with your progress; when you understand you are on the right path, you know you're one step closer to your mission.

Discovering your unique gifts involves a process of self-discovery and reflection. Here are some strategies that might help:

1. Interests: Reflect on how you loved to spend your time as a child. What activities were exciting to you? These childhood interests often provide clues to your unique gifts and talents.

2. Passions: Identify what lights you up and gets you motivated as an adult. What kinds of things consume your time, and do you enjoy doing them so much that you lose track of time? You can align your life with your true calling by identifying your passions.

3. Life Values: List everything you need (like health, family, career, relationship, spirituality/religion, personal development and recreation). This will give you a list of your values broken down by area. Your values are closely related to your North Star.

4. Strengths Finder Assessment: Consider taking a strengths finder assessment. If you click on this web-based interview, it analyzes your instinctive reactions and presents you with your signature "themes". By identifying your strengths, you can develop them into unique gifts and align them with your North Star.

5. Take note of activities that make you feel at ease. We often undervalue or consider our strengths as talents because they come so naturally. By identifying these activities, you can develop them into unique gifts and align them with your North Star.

6. Get an Outside View: Ask your friends to get the perspectives of different individuals who know you well. Gathering insight from various parts of your life may also be worthwhile. Sometimes, others can provide insight that we cannot see ourselves.

7. Self-Examination and Feedback: Follow a practical and reflective process involving self-examination, seeking feedback, and noticing where you naturally excel. By reflecting on your life experiences and seeking input from others, turn your unique gifts and align them with your North Star.

Remember, discovering your unique gifts and following your North Star is profoundly personal and can take time. Most of all, be patient with yourself and enjoy the journey of self-discovery. Your North Star awaits you to discover it and align your life with your true calling. If you want assistance, I am here to help you tap into your authentic self.

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David Pender

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